I know I've been MIA for awhile. I'm working on my Master's of Education. I had an assignment to put together a power point on Forming a New Identity During Adolescence. Here's a sample of what I've been doing;
“The physical, psychological, and social changes
experienced by adolescents are such that psychologists generally regard
adolescence as a critical period for self and identity development.” (Tanti, et
al. 2011: 555)
While, “the majority of teenagers weather the challenges
of the period without developing significant social, emotional or behavioural
difficulties” (Steinberg 2001:85),
and
normative behaviour exemplifies the avoidance of problematic behaviour or development, much
research is focused on the “storm and stress” Hall (1904) of the adolescent
period. “During this phase of the
life-cycle problematic development is more interesting than normative
development” (Steinberg 2001:85)
and it
is critical to recognize dysfunctional
new
identities from experimental new identities.
“Coping may be especially difficult when role changes
associated with timing of maturation co-vary with role changes associated with contextual
alterations” (Lerner, 1985:359)
which
is, in essence, a situation
where many opposing or changing life circumstances occur simultaneously which
is beyond
the adolescents’
ability
to cope.
All the World is a Stage
Lerner (1985: 357-359) states the following regarding the role of the
adolescent in their own development:
Adolescent as
Stimulus: The adolescent may produce his or her development by
constituting a distinct stimulus to others, for example, through
characteristics of physical and/or behavioural individuality.
Research shows that there are many more benefits to
being a beautiful child than being the ugly duckling. The beautiful adolescent
male or female is treated in a much more positive manner by both peers and adults. Environmentally,
peers and adults interact in a closer space with physically attractive
adolescents, providing much greater positive feedback, intentional or not to mesomorphic and attractive
adolescents. This behaviour negatively affects
both unattractive adolescents and endomorphic males as there is evidence that
these groups have more behavioural and adjustment
problems.
Adolescent as
Processor: Adolescents may produce their own development through
their capabilities as processors of the world (i.e. cognitive structure and
mode of emotional reactivity).
Under the assumption that people do not remain the same
over the course of their life span cognitively, physically, socially or
emotionally, we can have different responses to the same set of circumstances
depending on our life stage.
Adolescents will process experiences differently
depending on their personal development. For example, a high school adolescent
will have a very different reaction to the same sex education materials than a
grade 7 adolescent.
Girls from different cultural backgrounds and ages will
have differing responses to the onset of menarche and that will have a
significant effect on their physical experience.
Adolescent as Agent,
Shaper, and Selector: Adolescents may produce their own development through
their active, behavioural agency.
As agent, shaper and selector, adolescents develop the competency to
behaviourally shape and select their contexts;
the type of environmental input (e.g., specific peer groups, modes of
conduct) becomes a matter of choice. Selecting
new and important contexts, such as a workplace, makes adolescents
producers of their own development. Role
changes, which happen as a result of biological or contextual changes or changing parental expectations may prove to
be challenging, particularly so when maturational and contextual changes occur
simultaneously. For example a family moving mid school year occurring concurrently with their daughter’s
first menstrual period.
“By influencing the context which influences them,
adolescents are producers of their own development (Lerner, 1982:356).”
Caught in the Feedback Loop
*Adolescents as ‘producers’ of their own development
become engaged in a bi-directional
relationship
with their context in their world. They influence their context which
influences the adolescent
which influences
their context which influences
the adolescent...
*Lerner’s (1985:361) Dynamic Interactional model (of child/parental
development) illustrates this feedback loop and supports Bronfenbrenner’s Theory of Ecological
Child Development;
(Lerner’s model of Bidirectional Adolescent-Context Relations)
(Bronfenbrenner’s Theory of Ecological Child Development)
Backstage Wardrobe Change – “Goodness-of-Fit” Model
*The “goodness-of-fit model”, according to Lerner (1985:362) is, “a process by
which adolescents might produce their own development [and] involves the extent to which their characteristics of
physical and/or behavioural individuality provide a match with adaptational demands emanating
from the social context.”
*The “goodness-of-fit model” is understood only by
acknowledging personal unique individuality of physical characteristics and
attractiveness, temperament and socialization. Adolescents will evoke differing
reactions based on context and the sub set of demands, attitudes, values,
expectations and stereotypes present in a situation, place and time. “The
different adolescents had characteristics of psychosocial development
consistent with their alternative types of feedback” (Lerner, 1985:363)
Physical/Biological changes which affect forming a new
identity:
Early Maturing Females;
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Early Maturing Males;
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Endomorphic
(rounded) body type experience markedly negative stereotypes
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Mesomorphic
(husky) body type is stereotyped in a positive manner
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Typically
occur in families with increased conflict and absent biological fathers
(Graber et al 1995, Kim & Smith 1998, Surbey 1990
from Steinberg & Morris 2001:89)
|
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More
susceptible to low self-esteem (Petersen 1985 from
Steinberg & Morris 2001:90) despite greater
popularity than their later maturing counterparts.
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Experience
higher self esteem and greater popularity than their later maturing
counterparts.
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At
risk for delinquency and risk-taking behaviour due to associations and
friendships with older adolescents.
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At
risk for delinquency and risk-taking behaviour due to associations and
friendships with older adolescents.
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More
at risk for drug use, antisocial behaviour, promiscuity, and, truancy.
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More
at risk for drug use, antisocial behaviour, promiscuity, and, truancy.
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Higher
rates of depression, anxiety, eating disorders and chronically low self
esteem.
|
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More
difficulties experienced if they have many friendships with members of the
opposite sex.
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Information for
this table compiled from Steinberg L. & Morris A.S., 2001:90
Who I Am is not Who I’ve Been
•As the child grows to
adolescence, their needs change. The context that has enveloped them and the
individuals in that context, all of which are changing and developing
simultaneously, seems to no longer fill their needs or aspirations. The
adolescent enters into a stage of maturation wherein cognitive and physical
development outstrips their need for contextual security.
•Independent identity
development drives the adolescent to experiment and master skills and notions
apart from their childhood context. As they enter into new and unknown areas,
there is still a need for support and acceptance from their peers, leading them
to actively pursue peer groups with commonality. This commonality or ‘likes’
shared among the group is not a concrete membership but rather one of many
‘like’ groups established where belonging is negotiated.
The Parent Trap
“…there
is now a rather wide consensus that parents continue to be critically important
sources of support, control, and socialization, even as autonomy is negotiated
and peers take on heightened salience.” (Giordano 2003: 258)
“Although negativity may increase between parents and
adolescents during puberty, positive effect and emotional closeness likely
remain unchanged.” Steinberg & Morris 2001:89
Fortunately,
the generation gap in reality is not as wide as the common stereotype,
according to research (Brown 1990). Parents must be reminded of their
significant and irrefutable place in their adolescent’s life despite ongoing
challenges.
“Although negativity
may increase between parents and adolescents during puberty, positive affect and emotional
closeness likely remain unchanged” (Steinberg, 2001:89).
Strong values and
positive behaviour modeled by parents
can influence the daily decisions of adolescents such as choosing peers or
engaging in delinquent behaviours.
NO STRINGS ATTACHED
“Attachment theories emphasize the important role of
very early experiences in the family…Individuals who develop secure early
attachments are believed to be more successful in forging later relationships,
including close friendships and romantic relations.” (Giordano 2003: 259).
Attachment theories describe the possible effect on the
dynamics of adolescents and skill building, intimacy, and coping with
rejection. It is believed that children who do not forge close bonds or
detached from parents at a young age are highly sensitive to rejection.
“In contrast to the hierarchical nature of the
parent-child bond, friendships at their base are egalitarian – within
friendships, reality is “cooperatively co-constructed.”” (Giordano 2003: 261)
Friendships help adolescents:
*Develop a sense of
self.
*Understand the
changes around them, free of restrictions.
*Feel connected to
others.
*Form interpersonal
and social skills.
*Build trust,
confidence and self-esteem.
Identity Crisis and Peer Support
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“This
greater level of acceptance within the friendship context and tendency to focus
on the present helps explain the high
levels of self-disclosure and mutual trust that often develop as basic
characteristics of close friendship ties. The notion that adolescents can be
themselves with friends (in contrast with more selective communications and
frequently more guarded relationships with parents) is often considered a
defining feature of such relations.” (Giordano 2003: 261)
Peer relations can be a crucial component to developing
a strong sense of identity during adolescence. Networking a variety of
connections provide a support system that may not be available at home. As
stated in the literature, adolescents turn to peers because it provides an
egalitarian setting. Teens begin to construct new likes and dislikes according
to their peers. As some may succumb to peer pressure, others may become more
independent by understanding what it is that sets them apart and keeps them
unique.
Things that are likely to affect social development with
peers: gender, race, SES, social class, minority status, community, interaction
with immediate and extended family, frequent migration, delinquent behaviours, high
school absence rate. (Giordano
2003: 262-263).
“Birds
of a feather flock together” “A level of association between intimacy and
influence is reasonable to expect because:
(a)frequent interaction and
communication creates numerous opportunities for influence,
(b)actors tend to identify most
readily with individuals perceived as similar to themselves, thus enhancing
receptivity to influence attempts, and
(c)the more that individuals
value particular affiliations, the more willing they may be to accede to any
influence attempts to maintain or enhance their relationship(s).”
(Giordano 2003: 263-264).
Security in Identity
“Those
with rosters comprised entirely of delinquent friends were most likely to be
delinquent, suggesting a kind of encapsulation effect.” (Giordano 2003: 264)
During a time of immense change and need to feel
acceptable to others, peer pressure can create scenarios where adolescents make
poor choices. How are poor choices affected by identity development?
*Teens feel the need to associate with “popular” kids,
which in turn makes them popular.
*Teens do not want to stand out or feel isolated from a
decision made by consensus.
*Teens do not see the long term effects or consequences
of rash or irresponsible decisions.
OTHER POSSIBLE EFFECTS…
*Many studies have examined
peer relations during the grade-school years and concluded that peer-rejected
youth are at higher risk for a variety of adjustment problems concurrently and
later in life...so-called rejected youths are more likely to exhibit aggression
as well as other conduct and emotional problems. (Giordano 2003: 266)
*…respondents who
lacked attachment to peers were more likely than others to have thought of
(ideation) or actually attempted suicide.” (Giordano 2003: 266)
*Predictors were shown
to have a negative impact for carrying weapons to school for those who had
school-orientated friends, but an increased impact for those who lacked
friends. (Giordano 2003: 266).
In addition, by virtue of direct and indirect
communication processes (adulation, approval, gossip, teasing, ridicule),
adolescents learn a great deal about themselves, their social worth, and the
broader cultural world they inhabit through experiences beyond the confines of
close friendship. (Giordano 2003: 267)
The Gene Pool
Studies are indicating that adolescent adaptability and
some other behaviours (internalizing, externalizing, aggression, depression,
risk for suicide) can be attributed to heritability (Deater-Deckard & Plomin 1999, Jacobson &
Rowe 1999, et al
from Steinberg & Morris 2001:98). As with much of adolescence, girls seem to draw the
short straw as they appear to be more genetically influenced than boys with
respect to coping mechanisms and both internalizing and externalizing
issues.
It appears that if we inherit the same coping mechanisms
(or lack as the case may be) as a parent, that may significantly increase the
likelihood for an antagonistic relationship. Don’t some people have a gift for
pushing the right buttons?!
The Adolescent Stereotype:
Moodiness
isn’t really a factor
Moodiness is a
stereotype that cannot be supported by research which, in fact, has found the
opposite to be true. The more advanced
the adolescent is in puberty, the more positive their feelings. Additionally,
there is no measurable variance in moodiness from childhood to adolescence to
adulthood. (Steinberg 2001:90-91).
An
additional study attempting to quantify adolescent life satisfaction indicates
that, “the notion that relatively high levels of global life satisfaction
[cognitive appraisal of the overall quality of a person’s life based on
self-selected standards (ie. sadness, pride,
anger, joy)] may serve as a key psychological strength towards optimal human
functioning” (Gilman R. & E.S. Huebner, 2006:319).
We must conclude therefore, that what adolescents are
experiencing is not attributable to moodiness and must be considered of
significance and treated as such.
CASE STUDY
Susie, a somewhat ‘chubby’ grade 10 student, seems to
struggle forming friendships in school. During the course of the year, you see
that Susie changes her ‘image’ considerably: She is dressing in predominantly
black clothes, begins to wear lots of dark eye make-up, shows up with increased
piercings – first in her ears, then you also notice brow-, nose-, and tongue
piercings. Susie’s changed image affords her access to one of the peer-groups
in your school, but...
What do you think Susie wants to achieve in terms of
responses to herself from others?
*Attracting the
interest of ‘like’ peers
*Make a statement of
her identity, to show her existence.
*To come across as
confident, possibly masking what she feels are flaws.
What are some responses to her image from various groups of
people?
*She may attract
friends who have the same interests.
*She may be seen as
awkward or a “try hard”.
*She may be
stereotyped as “emo” or goth.
*Susie may be
establishing a feedback loop affirming “mismatch-fit” with popular culture and
society.
*“Markedly negative
stereotypes exist for endomorphic children” (Lerner, 1985:365).
*Fat girls experience
weight stigma to a greater degree than their male counterparts (Taylor,
2011:186).
*Masculine or unisex
appearance associated with Susie’s appearance will not ultimately increase her
self-esteem despite providing her with temporary shock value.
Given your understanding of Susie as a ‘processor’ and
‘selector’ of developmentally relevant experiences, would you be able to
guide/coach/encourage her to find more uniformly positive responses to herself?
How would you do that?
•Reality
check (future projection of current appearance)
•difficulty
for employment
•BMI
calculator for children and adolescent from Center for Disease Control
•nutritionist
visit/talk with large group
“It is critically important for adults to help girls
read and critique the culture in which they live, to understand and challenge
or interrupt traditional hegemonic masculine ideology” (Brown & Tappan,
2008:56)
POINTS TO PONDER
1) In what ways are adolescents ‘producers’ of their own
development?
2) Are there personal attributes that shape the kinds of
experiences which, in turn, influence the identity formation of adolescents?
3) Friendships and romantic relationships are important components in
the process of identity formation. How might they influence learning behaviour
– what is your view?
CLASS DISCUSSION QUESTION
In addition to addressing the ‘Points to Ponder’ in your
response, please consider the following;
1. As Susie’s
teacher, how would you support her to acknowledge or discover a healthy
lifelong identity? How would you help her improve her situation among her
peers?
REFERENCES
Brown, L. M., & Tappan, M. B. (2008). Fighting like a
girl, fighting like a guy: Gender identity, ideology, and girls at early
adolescence. New Directions for Child and Adolescent Development, 2008(120), 47-59. DOI:10.1002/cd.215
Gilman, R. & Huebner, E.S. (2006). Characteristics of
Adolescents Who Report Very High Life Satisfaction. Journal of Youth and
Adolescence, New York: Jun 2006. Vol. 35, Iss. 3; p. 311-319
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A dynamic
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2 comments:
It boggles my mind what you are doing. Great work!
What? No time for cards? LOL
Keep working hard girl.
Awesome PP presentation! Wish I had known about all this stuff when my #1 kid was going through adolescence.
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